Accountability: An Editor’s Response

Posted in Uncategorized on March 18, 2014 by khalf

khalf:

Come check us out at Intellectual Consortium Uncoverd

Originally posted on Intellectual Consortium Uncovered:

On behalf of Uppity and Antagonist, I thank Kawana Williams for her submission. I must say this is an excellent way to progress with this open collective. In our first submission, we let you all know who we are and how we function. We have endless conversations about any and everything under the sun. Kawana’s submission was one such topic. As an editor, I felt it necessary to respond. There are at least two reasons I elected to write this response. I am the only member of the ICU that has been married or divorced, for that matter. I am also the only woman, obviously.

A few years ago I worked in customer service and one of the key factors to providing customers with a quality experience was for the customer service representative to “take ownership” of the call. So what is ownership and how does it factor into this…

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My husband is not my soul mate.

Posted in Uncategorized on July 23, 2013 by khalf

khalf:

Right perspective!

Originally posted on The Art in Life:

It might seem odd that on this, our one-year anniversary, I am beginning a post with the declaration that my husband is not my soul mate. But he isn’t.WegmannWedding161

I wouldn’t want to imagine life without James. I enjoy being with him more than anyone else in this world. I love him more than I ever thought you could love someone, and I miss him whenever I am not with him. I wouldn’t want to married to anyone else other than James, which is good, because I plan on being married to him forever, and he has to let me die first.

But I reject the entire premise of soul mates.

WegmannWedding294Do you remember those awesome Evangelical 90’s/ early 2000’s where Jesus was kind of like our boyfriend and we all kissed dating good-bye because we just knew that God was going to bring us THE ONE and then life…

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The White Female Privilege of Juror B37

Posted in Uncategorized on July 16, 2013 by khalf

khalf:

Check out my brother’s post. Excellent work from the Uppity Negro!

Originally posted on Uppity Negro Network™:

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Our racial prejudices, the ones that we heard the older people in our family say, the racial jokes about Mexicans without regard for Latino and Hispanic ancestry that isn’t just from one country, or about Chinese or the Koh-reeans to the Aa-rabs, they all inform our worldview.  The offspring of these people are forced to navigate murky social waters seeing as how this society becomes more and more pluralistic, it could easily make going to a diverse high school even more challenging if being raised in a household where a certain ethnic group or nationality is constantly looked down upon for everything.

That being said, I’ll never forget a conversation in high school either my sophomore or junior year of high school in which a classmate, black and male made a comment about a teacher he wasn’t too fond of and he said “She got WWS.”  Naturally, I asked “What’s…

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Lesson 2: Perspective

Posted in Uncategorized on October 26, 2012 by khalf

Lesson 2: Perspective.

Lesson 1: After

Posted in Uncategorized on October 26, 2012 by khalf

Lesson 1: After.

Earnest Parenthood: In the Wake of Trayvon Martin’s Death

Posted in Uncategorized on March 22, 2012 by khalf

Proverbs 3:1-4 “My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments: For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee. Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart: So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man.”

I can remember when my father and mother first shared these words with my brother and me. I also remember the looks in their eyes when they taught this scripture and especially the sense of urgency my father’s voice held as he repeated the verses over and over until my brother and I could recite it in unison with him.  It wasn’t until I spoke with my son and daughter a few days ago about Trayvon Martin (something they had been hearing in passing on the news) that I understood the meaning of the episode I described with my parents.  The job of mother/father is not an easy one.  Those that would seem best suited are frequently left frazzled and frustrated at the depth and intensity of the task.  Our hope is that our children will hear and heed our words and will stretch limits and reach beyond the barriers of circumstance and exceed our highest expectations of them.  So it is with meticulous attention to detail that we nurture, educate, polish and refine them.  We raise them to be respectful of themselves and others, in fact Christian parents teach their children to esteem others more highly than themselves.  Simply put we raise our children to be productive members of society.  Then we get hit with a grenade leaving us with parents who raised a respectful beautiful child facing the very real grief of losing him unexpectedly and unnecessarily all because of something he could not prevent, his sex and skin color. I could talk about how I fear for the safety of my son and daughter.  I could talk about how difficult it is to be black in a society that subconsciously fears you while simultaneously singing the songs of your humanity.  I could, but I won’t.  No, I will speak about how it is still my job to rear my son and daughter in the very real fear and admonition of Christ.  It is my job to earnestly and purposefully instill in them the foundational principles of Christianity so that they can make choices based on wisdom and not emotion. I can and will continue to teach them that it is a beautiful honor to be black and that in His wisdom and because of his love for beauty he created people of many shades and hues and he said about them all “Behold it is VERY good.”  I will continue to teach them that it is not wrong to love being black as long as you realize that your blackness makes you no better or worse than those who are not, it just makes you equally beautiful and yes FLY.  I will continue to teach my children “the rules.”  What are the rules you ask, they are the unwritten social constructs that black men and women have to live by because our safety and our lives depend on them.  I will also teach them that there is still a very real possibility that even when they do everything right it may still cost them but a good name is to be desired.  Dignity and self-respect come from living a life upright, the best way to fight and win whether in life or death is to live with the assurance that your conduct has been blameless.  For those who wonder how do we stop senseless killings, it comes with a change of heart until then, cherish your babies and train them up.

Black History Month

Posted in Religion/History on February 5, 2012 by khalf

As this month begins and some question even the validity of organized celebrations or observances of things like Black History Month; I felt it fitting to examine the activity of remembering history.  As is my custom, I sought the word of God (I’m a Christian I can’t help myself).  In my study I sought to examine a particular celebration I knew was mandated for the Hebrew people in Torah (the Old Testament).  In fact the ordinance is not merely in Torah but Pentateuch (the first 5 books). It is in Pentateuch that we are given a great deal of the history of the Hebrew people as well as the law; in Exodus and detailed in Leviticus, Numbers, and Deuteronomy (the second law).  The mandate is that of Passover.  In close study I found, as you will, that there is much said to include the event that gives causation to the Passover Festival.  Exodus 11 details the final plague issued upon Egypt when the children of Israel are about to be delivered out of the bondage of slavery.  I encourage you to read each reference.  The first-born males of the Egyptians, their children and livestock, will be slain by the “Angel of Death” during the Hebrew nation’s final night in bondage.  The Hebrews were instructed by God to make visible markings and to prepare a particular feast, among other details, in order for the “plague” to not be visited upon their homes. The importance of obedience contained here is for another blog altogether.  Needless to say the instructions must be followed precisely.  In Exodus 12 we see immediately upon the detail of the process of the “Plague of the First Born Male” God gives instructions for marking history beginning with:

And the LORD spake unto Moses and Aaron in the land of Egypt saying,  This month shall be unto you the beginning of months: it shall be the first month of the year to you.  Speak ye unto all the congregation of Israel, saying, In the tenth day of this month they shall take to them every man a lamb, according to the house of their fathers, a lamb for an house:  And if the household be too little for the lamb, let him and his neighbour next unto his house take it according to the number of the souls; every man according to his eating shall make your count for the lamb.  Your lamb shall be without blemish, a male of the first year: ye shall take it out from the sheep, or from the goats:  And ye shall keep it up until the fourteenth day of the same month: and the whole assembly of the congregation of Israel shall kill it in the evening.  And they shall take of the blood, and strike it on the two side posts and on the upper door post of the houses, wherein they shall eat it. And they shall eat the flesh in that night, roast with fire, and unleavened bread; and with bitter herbs they shall eat it.  Eat not of it raw, nor sodden at all with water, but roast with fire; his head with his legs, and with the purtenance thereof.  And ye shall let nothing of it remain until the morning; and that which remaineth of it until the morning ye shall burn with fire. And thus shall ye eat it; with your loins girded, your shoes on your feet, and your staff in your hand; and ye shall eat it in haste: it is the LORD’s passover. For I will pass through the land of Egypt this night, and will smite all the firstborn in the land of Egypt, both man and beast; and against all the gods of Egypt I will execute judgment: I am the LORD. And the blood shall be to you for a token upon the houses where ye are: and when I see the blood, I will pass over you, and the plague shall not be upon you to destroy you, when I smite the land of Egypt. And this day shall be unto you for a memorial; and ye shall keep it a feast to the LORD throughout your generations; ye shall keep it a feast by an ordinance for ever.(KJV Exodus 12:1-14)

I love how God is specific with details, there are no grey areas. I particularly enjoy the invocation and charge given in verse 14 as it is the pretext of my dissertation.  If we read further and go to the book of Leviticus we find in the 23rd chapter a series of instructions concerning the various feast and festivals of the Hebrew people.  Verse 5 gives an ordinance concerning the Feast of Passover which is to be celebrated in the first month of the year on the fourteenth day and details how to properly celebrate.  There is no lack in abundance of scriptural references that I could provide to show the details concerning the Passover.

What I find here, is that God himself implemented festivals of memorial or celebrations of remembrance.  Why, Exodus 13:3, 9&10: ” And Moses said unto the people, Remember this day, in which ye came out from Egypt, out of the house of bondage; for by strength of hand the LORD brought you out from this place: there shall no leavened bread be eaten……9And it shall be for a sign unto thee upon thine hand, and for a memorial between thine eyes, that the LORD’s law may be in thy mouth: for with a strong hand hath the LORD brought thee out of Egypt. 10Thou shalt therefore keep this ordinance in his season from year to year.”

To some it may seem irrelevant but I’m going somewhere I’m just asking you to follow.  The validity of Black History Month among others has been challenged by way of  “war cry” in our “post-racial” society (of course current events decry this notion).  The remembrance of history is vital because it sets in context the scope and scheme for who and what we are now and what we can or will become.  You see God specifically ordained the observance and remembrance of history so that future generations would know from whence they come and how they were afforded the conditions into which they were privileged, good or bad.  If we examine extensively we see that these ordinances contained conditions of covenant that talked about not only remembering what happened but why it had been done, who performed the work (God) and how it is because of this that we worship God.

Within the Old Testament we see time and again the establishing or reestablishing of God’s covenant with people.  In those covenants we see the responsibility of remembrance placed upon the “elders.”  I cannot read a passage that details the retailing and committment of covenant without seeing the words memorial and remembrance.  I also cannot read the passage without seeing the phrase and you shall tell it unto your children.

I said all this to say:  It is the responsibility of the individual to ensure that if he is Christian, he ensure that the scope of the celebration is set in the proper context which is the grace and hand of Almighty God.  So during Black History month, Women’s History Month and the multitude of other months set aside for cultural heritage and history celebrations, remember the reason that strives have been made is due to the Providence of the only true and living God and remember from whence you’ve come helps to give clear foresight for where you are going.

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